hi stokie
welcome to the forum
KC is one of natures little cruelties andone that unfortunately wont go away. the challenge is to find the best way of living with it to attain the best quality of life that you can, sometimes that can be difficult. unfortunately it can also mean making sacrifices but i've personally found that as one door closes another opens. i was diagnosed 22 yrs ago at the age of 18 and my sport was cycling. i had a very real chance of competing in the tour de france and had to let it go when i was diagnosed, cycling at high speed in the mountains was a bit dangerous with poor sight

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a graft is a last resort.
it is a donor organ that is stitched into your own eye and takes a very long time to recover. when recovered your eye will still be weeker than your own original cornea, if you recieve any knocks it could do untold damage.
as a donor organ you will need to take very good care of it to keep it, ie not overworking it , taking the anti rejection drugs religiously for as long as you need to and keeping all your eye care appointments.
i'm not trying to put you off having a graft but pointing out that it isnt neccasarily a quick fix, and it it would be highly likely that you would still need some form of eye correction.
i appreciate that your present lens situation poses difficulties for you however a graft would also pose difficulties, just a different set.
it took me a long time to accept KC and its still hard today but at all costs persevere with your lenses for as long as you can rather than opt for a graft before exhausting all the other solutions.
if i could i would wear lenses for the rest of my life rather than have to have my graft.
if you really want to talk to somebody on msn then i would consider doing that if i could help in anyway, but please take note of all the people on here as there is so much warm and true good friendly advice.
my advice to you would be to look at your cup as half full and to consider yourself as being a special person with a pretty unique condition and can hold your own in a world full of "normal"people on an equal footing.
keep on going
mike