Anne you have just asked an impossible question.
For me, the graft decision was made at a young age, partly as a graft 18 years ago was considerd a cure and secondly because at that time I had exhausted all lens options which meant I did my A levels partially sighted. Had the graft 3 weeks after my last exam and started Uni still registerd partially sighted while the graft settled enough for glasses.
No idea what the Moorfields waiting list is like. If it is long I suppose you could get on the waiting list while you waited to try the scleral option. You can afterall back out of the graft option and take a step back in the que.
I do however feel that people know when it is the right time for a graft.
Can't remembre if you were still with us when Michael said he set him self criteria that had to be reached before he would consider a graft. Then because he felt it was not the rigt time, he changed the criteria.
I'm sure he will elaborate further.
I will definitly do my best to be at the next social, probably enter the pub the same way i have been known to depart and that is via the bog window
Quite happy to share my graft experience and Sweet will say what she has been through and John can share his which may not be as positive as mine. You will at least get a variety of experiences to help make an informed choice.