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Totally and utterly daft but....

Posted: Thu 18 Jan 2007 9:29 pm
by Pat A
Guys and Dolls out there
I know it's daft, but I am really scared witless (that's the polite version) about getting my lenses tomorrow. I have had so many knock backs and am so desperately hoping they will help, I don't know what I will do if I can't cope with them.

I've got all your earlier advice (which I am really grateful for and will take heed of ) but.........

Now then, I don't want any sympathy, honestly - just a group hug please!!!!!

Pat
...and I know after I hit the "submit" button I'm going to think I shouldn't have posted this!

Posted: Thu 18 Jan 2007 9:55 pm
by donna
(((PAT))) you will be fine and its normal to be terrified! I am worried sick about my next eye test!
Good luck and let us know how you get on!

Posted: Thu 18 Jan 2007 10:11 pm
by Louise Pembroke
It's ok to feel wobbly Pat, you're allowed. You can always bark on chit-chat :D

Posted: Thu 18 Jan 2007 11:14 pm
by Libby
Pat,
We all know what its like to feel apprehensive and scared, I think because of the nature of KC we never quite know whats around the corner. Try to keep positive and strong. Hope things go well
Libby

Posted: Thu 18 Jan 2007 11:22 pm
by Vic
Pat - two weeks tomorrow I'll be in exactly the same position as you - and I'm also pretty scared, you're not alone, and it's ok to feel that way. Hope it all goes ok tomorrow for you, let us know how you get on *group hug* xx

Posted: Fri 19 Jan 2007 8:21 am
by GarethB
Pat,

Be a good girl guide and be prepared. Make a list of all your questions. Make notes, if possible take a friend to make notes of what is discussed.

A bit late to suggest this and I know I should have put this much earlier when you asked for advice. :oops:

Arrive early, despite Moorfields often running late, so you can have a calming cuppa prior your appointment.

Take something to listen too if you are unable to read, otherwise what I doo soemtimes, take a good book and a magnyfying glass to help read.

It will take a week or two to know how well you are doing with lenses as you have to start wearing them for either 1 - 2 hours to begin with and gradually build the time.

Good luck.

Gareth

Posted: Fri 19 Jan 2007 8:32 am
by Matthew_
(((Pat))) Big hugs.

Posted: Fri 19 Jan 2007 8:51 am
by Andrew MacLean
(((Pat and Vic)))

Take care, both of you. You are in our thoughts.

There is nothing daft, far less totally and utterly daft, about having a wobble at the prospect of having new lenses tried.

I hope all goes well for you.

andrew

Posted: Fri 19 Jan 2007 11:18 am
by Val G
Wishing you all the best and a big hug for your appointment. Let us know how you get on.

I'm very wobbly about my clinic appointment on Tuesday, as I've been moping along with a loose suture for weeks now.

Posted: Fri 19 Jan 2007 1:00 pm
by Louise Pembroke
I'll be with Vic to hold to her hand, and then our doggies have a chat in the cafe...people look at us and think we're strange for some reason